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Asked: Aug 06 '12 at 10:56

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Last updated: Dec 22 '13 at 16:43

I am beginning to feel persecuted by this person. No matter what I write, this person has a corrective comment to make, and I am getting tired of it. What can I do? How do I get him off my back?

see this question as an example of what I mean....

Thanks, Jai

asked Aug 06 '12 at 10:56

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I can't see any persecution in the example you've given. If the question wasn't Community Wiki, the moderators would have edited out the extra question marks anyway because, like capital letters, they do imply aggressiveness when viewed online. Where is the rest of the persecution that is happening?

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answered Aug 06 '12 at 11:54

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Simon, the guy has been "correcting me" every time I post. Check it out. I cannot help feeling that he is subtly, within boundaries, (of course, he is smart) harassing me. Please look into this further. Jai

(Aug 06 '12 at 12:35) Jaianniah

@Jaianniah: I cannot check anything out if you do not provide examples. You are making some serious allegations in public against another member of Inward Quest using words like "persecuted" and "harassing". Please provide clear examples of the persecution and harassment.

(Aug 06 '12 at 12:43) Simon Templeton ♦♦

I just opened my email & I see Wade is accusing another member of hurting Jai. I took a quick glance at IQ & didn't see anything. I fear the accusations are starting again.

I'm going to link another question to this one for future reference in case this happens to another member. These complaints are nothing new.

The answer given by this member is very applicable.

I believe the comments made here tell the story.

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"Labels hurt and have the power to destroy lives" - So perhaps that statement should also apply when trying to scare another into believing they have a sleep disorder :)

(25 Feb, 11:20)Stingray


She wasn't trying to scare...

Getting something checked out is better then believing it is numerology or Pladiaens giving her messages that she must not be receiving or she'd already know it was them.

Sleep apnea can be serious. Jai ought to know, she suffers from it herself.

(25 Feb, 12:05)Wade Casaldi


I think that you have crossed the line here, @stingray. I am so very tired of your corrections and minute attentions to my writings here on IQ. You must know the difference between concern and scare tactics. I had no such idea in my mind when i wrote my answer. I feel that you do not like me at all.

(25 Feb, 12:36)Jaianniah


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I agree with you in regards to labels; but imo, suggesting a sleep study was totally absurd based on what the user said. She looks up to us & the answers given by big brothers or father figures provided comfort & possibilities. You seem to be hyper sensitive to constructive criticism. As much as I would like to answers your questions Jai, I hesitate. I don't want you running to Meta to lodge a complaint like you did with SR or be the reason for another dr visit if my fb is viewed as neg.

(25 Feb, 16:22)ele


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I apologize. Mea culpa. I am in the hospital, on medication, and should not have P posted anything under the circumstances. I will think about all you have pointed out,@stingray and @ele. I am truly sorry. I am .

(25 Feb, 16:47)Jaianniah


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Yes Jai, I know you are in the hospital, I read your announcement earlier. I think you answered the dream ? prior to entering the hospital. I thought your answer to this ? was very good & voted it up; which makes me think you are improving ~Yea! Point is, don't stop asking ?'s.

(25 Feb, 20:47)ele


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Jai, I can't imagine being online is at all conducive when one has a headache; but if it is, I suggest you read vintage Jai & read SR's answers again & again. No one on this site has given more of his time or tried to help you more than he has. He is always kind & caring. I care; but at times been brutally honest.

(25 Feb, 20:48)ele

I could provide dozens of examples just like this one.

How prophetic & certainly hasn't been the first time...

I don't want you running to Meta to lodge a complaint like you did with SR or be the reason for another dr visit if my fb is viewed as neg. ~ ele

The fact is, Jai is hypersensitive to any type of criticism or negative feedback

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Adding another valuable link.

http://www.inwardquest.com/questions/16736/how-do-we-as-a-community-deal-with-those-of-our-members-we-consistently-see-causing-controversy

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answered Nov 25 '13 at 01:37

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